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Darin Neil Harnamji
February 04, 1963 - July 12, 2001


I Miss You

Darin, I’ve been thinking about you a lot over the past several months.  I looked at some photos of me and noticed a resemblance between us.  It’s odd that I never noticed it before.  I’m not sure what prompted me to see it but, I did.  I guess you’ve been on my mind along with everything else that’s been occupying my mind.  I’ve realized again, that time doesn’t stop for anyone or anything.  It plods along without the slightest consideration.  I miss you, Darin.  I will forever wish that things were different.  I miss you, my little brother. I love you. Barry.

Started by Barry Harnamji on December 25, 2012

I Miss You Darin
This day is the 2nd anniversary for Mom and the second Christmas without Robert and Mom.  It hurts that you and I didn’t spend more time.  I don’t even remember when you spent a Christmas with Robert and me, much less another holiday.  I’m sorry things got so messed up between us but always know that I love you very much.  You are on my mind often and I have your photos too, but those will never compare.  I know that you would have been a big help to me in my time of need as well.  I love you and miss you my little brother.  Barry

Started by Barry Harnamji on December 25, 2008

I Miss You, My Little Brother
The holiday season is upon us.  I spent this one alone again since Robert and Mom are no longer here.  This marks the second major holiday without them.  I will never forgive myself for allowing us to lose so much time, Darin, when we could have been much closer.  I only wish things were different but it’s too late now.  I hope you know that I always loved you, in spite of my stupid ways and I will never forgive myself for my lack of good sense.  I love you and miss you, Darin.  Barry

Started by Barry Harnamji on November 27, 2008

I Miss You, My Little Brother
The past several weeks have been very difficult for me, emotionally.  A lot of things have happened but I continue to think of the people I dearly, miss.  Darin, I know that we were not too close for a long time but I've always loved you and hope you knew that.  People certainly have strange ways in this life and I'm no exception.  They say that "hindsight is 20/20" and that is absolutely true.  I guess I was too involved in taking care of Robert and our lives to make time for others, which is one of my biggest regrets.  I will always love you Darin.  Now that I have more time, I don't have Robert, Mom or you to share this miserable life of mine.  I hope you will forgive me.  I love you and miss you, Darin. Barry
Started by Barry Harnamji on October 10, 2008

I Miss You So, Darin
I finally finished the slide show and uploaded it to this site. Although it was terribly painful to finish, I muddled through my tears. Seeing you in photos, which I had never seen, made the slide show difficult to put together because I was not part of your life for so long. I was glad, though, to know that you had good times. I love you and miss you, Darin. Barry
Started by Barry Harnamji on September 03, 2008

I Miss You Darin
I've been thinking of you quite a lot over the past weeks.  I've been putting together a slide show for you and it has taken quite a toll on my emotions.  I didn't realize that it would affect me this way but after seeing all of the photos of you and then trying to find the right music, my emotions just did what they had to do.  You looked so happy in so many of the photos.  All of those memories I missed out on.  It's good to know that you did have happy times in your life.  I love you and miss you, Darin.  Barry
Started by Barry Harnamji on August 04, 2008

So Much Time Has Passed
Today is the 7th anniversary for you.  I have been missing you so very much, Darin.  I've also been looking at your photos and realizing that I missed out on a large part of your life.  You don't know how much I wish things were different and how much I wish I could have been a part of your memories.  I will always hurt knowing that, but I hope you had a good life and from the photos it looks like you had some great times.  I love you and miss you, Darin.  Barry
Started by Barry Harnamji on July 12, 2008

I Miss You, My Brother
So much time has gone by.  You've been on my mind quite a bit over the past few weeks.  There are things I need to complete, however, that involve my memories of you.  I can honestly say that it's taken a toll on my emotions as I look at your photos.  There are so many events that I was never a part of, but I'm glad you had friends to share them with.  I wish I could have been a bigger part of your life and I will always be sorry that I wasn't.  I love you and miss you Darin.  Barry.
Started by Barry Harnamji on July 04, 2008

On my mind
Over the past few weeks and months my thoughts have been racing in every direction and you have been part of them.  Who knows what great friends we would have been or what great things you would have done if things were different.  Some things do not make any sense as I have been saying over the past year and I will continue to say.  I love you and miss you Darin.  Your brother Barry.
Started by Barry Harnamji on April 19, 2008

The time that we lost
It is with a very heavy heart that I tell you how much I regret all the time that we lost.  We could have been such good friends but my stubbornness kept me from letting go of differences and letting you know that I truly missed you.  I'm glad, however, that we reconciled somewhat before your time was up, although I realize that I will never be able to regain what was lost.  Darin, my brother, I love you and miss you.  Barry
Started by Barry Harnamji on February 19, 2008

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